However, when your partner is sick, it's a chance to show some extra care in your relationship. Surprisingly, being selfless during these times can bring you closer together. There's a silver lining even in sickness!

So, here are five simple things you can do the next time your spouse isn't feeling well.

Show a little empathy

Empathy means understanding and sharing someone else's feelings. When your spouse is sick, they need to feel your care and support. Let them know you hate to see them suffer and that you'll be there for them every step of the way.

Your kind words and actions can make a big difference. Ask how they're doing and really listen. Encourage them, saying things like, "You're strong, and I'm proud of you. You'll get through this." See if there's anything you can do to make them more comfortable.[loving husband caring for sick wife]

When your sick spouse feels that you understand their challenges and that you'll take care of them, it makes a tough situation feel a bit lighter. Your empathy won't magically heal them, but it will make them feel better in their heart. It shows them they have a true companion and best friend who will be there through any challenge.

Be their greatest strength

Staying strong when you're physically sick and in pain can be tough emotionally and spiritually. Even if your spouse seems strong on the outside, they might be struggling inside.

You have the power to be their strength during sickness. You know them better than anyone, so be the one they can lean on. Be the chef who whips up comforting chicken noodle soup, the shoulder to cry on, and the person who showers them with hugs and kisses. Assure them that everything will be okay, offer hope, and be their source of encouragement. [loving husband caring for sick wife]

Being the strong one for your spouse is like giving them a boost of energy. It can help them carry on when things get tough. So, be the cheerleader, stay positive, and show them that they don't have to be strong alone.

Show a little more patience

Your spouse might be a bit grumpy, bored, or tired when they're sick. Even a tonsillectomy can make them "hangry." Sickness can make people a bit moody, and their patience might be shorter than usual. Cut them some slack—they just don't feel like their usual positive selves. So, when supporting your spouse, remember to show more patience than usual. [loving husband caring for sick wife]

You know the saying, "patience is a virtue"? Well, it's true. It's like a skill you can get better at with practice. When your spouse is grouchy, don't snap at them. Instead of complaining that you're doing a lot for them without much gratitude, be patient—very patient. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Imagine what it's like to be in their shoes, and be thankful that you're feeling better than they are!

Do a little more.

Keeping a family going, especially with kids, is a ton of work. And when your spouse is sick, the workload seems to multiply. If your partner is under the weather, step up your game and do a bit more.

Become a temporary superhero and focus on them for a few days. Figure out what can make their life easier and more comfortable. Ask yourself, "What can I do to lighten their load?" Make or grab dinner, tackle the laundry, handle bedtime with the kids, run to the store for medicine, leave a sweet love note, change the sheets – you get the idea. Doing a little extra will mean a lot to your spouse, and it's a great way to show them how much you care.

Remind them how much they mean to you.

When I'm sick, I realize how much I need and appreciate my wife. It's funny how I feel the same when she's not well. Those moments make me see how much she does and how big her role is. In both situations, my love and appreciation for her grow. That's the magic of helping each other – whether we're giving or receiving.

If your spouse is under the weather, show them some extra love. Let them know how much they mean to you. Compliment their eyes or say they look better than yesterday. Stay positive, be grateful, and be happy. Hug them, hold their hand, give them a back rub, kiss their cheeks, and let them feel your love, even when they're not at their best.

Oh, and a quick word to the sick spouse

Being sick is no fun, but if your spouse is going above and beyond for you, make sure to show some love back.